You do such wonderful things!

Gong Xi Fa Cai

2012-01-23T14:53:00.004-06:00

Happy Chinese New Year!

Ushering in the year of the dragon.

An amazing dragon cake made by another HOGL family.

Once again this year we drove a couple of hours to celebrate the new year with other HOGL families. It is truly a blessing to get together with these families every year to celebrate our chlidrens' heritage, what God has done in our individual families, and pray for Ted and Bev. For without their servant hearts' none of this would be. We are blessed!

Since the celebration is in the same town that Uncle Braden, Aunt Clarissa, and Cousins Hadley and Braxton live, we spent the weekend enjoying some time together. They too attended CNY. We are thrilled that once again they have chosen to help us celebrate Titus' heritage. Braxton and Hadley always seem to have a great time playing with all the other children, making crafts and trying new food. I was so busy talking and catching up that I failed to take a lot of pictures. Oops! :(


Auntie C helping Titus with his dragon craft

B&T playing in a tunnel

Hadley's completed dragon

Which will he be?

2012-01-19T16:27:00.000-06:00

From the time Titus was 9 months old he
ALWAYS used his right hand, no matter what.

Lately, though he's been switching it up on us.

So, will he be a righty...

or a lefty...

or... could be be ambidextrous like his mama?

Winter, where are you?

2012-01-16T20:20:00.000-06:00

Mid January.

70 degrees.

Yes, please!

I'm a big boy now!

2012-01-13T22:53:00.003-06:00

We started 2012 off with a bang. If you were in our home right now these would be the most widely spoken phrases you would hear no less than a hundred times a day. "Let Mommy or Daddy know if you need to go potty." "No accidents!" "No diapers! "Woo-hoo, way to go, Titus!!!"

New Year's Eve I was at the store buying no less than 25 pairs of little boys' underwear, re-reading the Three Day Potty Training book, cleaning the potty chair and gearing up for an exciting day of potty training.   Oh the exciting life of a Mama with a plan! :)

Day 1: We packed away the diapers to give away, had a talk about potty training, showed Titus his new potty chair, and dressed our tiny tot in a pair of new underwear and a t-shirt only, just as the book suggested. Within 20 seconds of putting on his brand new underwear they were soaked. Of course, it was only going to get worse and go exactly as the book said it would...6 pairs of underwear in the first hour was discouraging and I was beginning to think I was crazy despite the warnings the book had given me. By the end of day one we had gone through ONLY 19 pairs and spot cleaned the carpet more than I care to think about. With the dryer happily humming we put day one to rest, prayed that this plan of motion was correct and that we really only did have 2 more days left of hard core training.

Day 2: Thankfully Daddy was home for a final day of Christmas vacation to help out again with this training as we were all exhausted. We once again dressed Titus in his new underwear and t-shirt and reminded him to let us know when he had to go potty. By afternoon, we were shocked and ecstatic when he went several times in his potty chair. After all, the book said this wouldn't happen until the end of day 3, so we were beyond proud and feeling like we would all survive.

Day 3: Our morning started a bit too early at 5:00 am, but with a dry underwear! I was on my own and terrified to what the day might bring. Since the day was a bit cooler I decided to add a light weight pair of knit pants to his ensemble; unfortunately I think the added layer made him feel more comfortable and confident and that was when a few accidents occurred. The pants quickly went to the way-side and we continued on accident free.

Day 4: Another dry morning underwear-success! Because we were feeling a bit stir crazy we invited Aunt Kate and Cousins E&Z over to spend the day. I was a bit distracted and we had a couple of accidents. As I was preparing lunch for everyone I asked where Titus was.   I guess he needed to go and decided since I was busy he would go on his own. He sat down and went potty, underwear on and all. Oops!

Day 5: We were crazy and took a road to see Grandpa and Grandma. He boldly declared to them, "No accidents! No diapers!" We had zero accidents! But, I was thrilled and relieved to be at home with much success later that evening.

We are continuing our journey to be a big boy and for the most part Titus has very few accidents and I would consider him potty trained. He knows what to do and most mornings and naps he wakes up dry.   We are so proud of our little guy and are thrilled with his success. Way to go, Titus!!!!

A funny side story, one day I walked around the corner as Kevin was supervising Titus in the bathroom and I had to laugh and of course grab my camera.

Like Father, like Son

Our Christmas

2012-01-13T22:20:00.001-06:00

Wow, I took a much longer break from blogging than I thought I would. We spent the last of 2011 and the very beginning of 2012 enjoying some much needed quiet family time with just the three of us. We were blessed that Kevin had ten days off from work and we enjoyed every minute together.

Titus and I were both sick leading up to Christmas. Thankfully, I started feeling semi-well enough to attend church on Christmas Eve, because holding that candle in the dark church singing Silent Night ranks as being one of the best moments of the entire year. Unfortunately our house was not at all in the shape I desired nor dreamed it to be, lists did not get checked off, and quite simply I just wasn't ready. But, Christmas still came and once again I had to remind myself that this holiday is not about the fluff. Not at all.

After church we had a light dinner with Uncle Eric, Aunt Kate, and Cousins Elle and Zane. Titus adores his uncle, aunt, and cousins and we are so thankful for their sweet relationship and the blessings they are in our lives.

Having a little one in the house brings so much joy to the holidays! Despite feeling awful I was looking forward to watching Titus experience Christmas a bit more this year. He didn't disappoint. I loved watching Titus' wide eyed wonder and curiosity; such a precious, precious time to watch and be a part of. Christmas Eve, Mommy and Daddy worked hard to create a winter wonderland for some indoor snow fun.

His shirt says it all!

We took our time reading the Christmas story, talking on Skype to G&G W, eating breakfast, and opening a few simple gifts. Titus was content to open a gift, play and enjoy it for quite awhile. He had no idea that another one was coming. It was very sweet and innocent. He loved all of his gifts.
Titus was so diligent opening each present and he had to remove every tiny piece of paper before he would open the box. Again, I love this stage!

Later Christmas day, we traveled to my parents' house to celebrate Christmas on Monday morning when all of my siblings would be available. It's definitely a full house when we are all all there and never a dull moment either.

My talented mom, made all three of her grandchildren coats for an early Christmas present, so we have been enjoying them throughout the month of December. They are quite soft and warm. Titus calls it his "Grandma coat".

That, in a nutshell, was our Christmas. We loved every single second of it, felt loved and blessed beyond measure. What a joy to be able to celebrate the season with our family.

Now I know my ABC's...

2011-12-13T20:55:00.001-06:00

Living Nativity

2011-12-10T04:13:00.001-06:00

Growing up my family always attended a drive-in style living nativity, complete with live animals and people. It was a special family tradition for the Christmas season and something I have missed over the years. So, in October when I heard that a church in our area was planing a live walking nativity I quickly signed our little family up for tickets.

Our walking journey began first in the Old Testament visiting various characters who foretold of Christ's birth or were a part of His lineage. We heard from several prominent Biblical characters: Moses, King David, Isaiah, and Micah.

Isaiah foretelling of Christ's coming

We then heard the Christmas story from the Angel’s pronouncement to Mary, Christ's birth, and the glorious song of the angels proclaiming the good news to the shepherds.

What we appreciated the most, is this presentation didn't end at the cradle but continued the story to the cross and finally to the empty grave. Demonstrating the unspeakable love of God for mankind. Jesus' coming is significant; the storyline of the entire Bible revolves around it. Thank you, Father for your special redemptive plan for us!

Bold

2011-12-07T15:09:00.003-06:00

I push the squeaky shopping cart up and down the aisles of the store as my little boy who is buckled in keeps begging me to pray.

"Pray, Mama! Pray, Mama!"

His begging must be heard at least an aisle over. I'm not sure why or what he wants me to pray for. But, he continues to beg me to pray.

"Jesus!"

People turn to look as they reach for a package of napkins or pull a box of Christmas lights from the shelf. Some stare and others smile our way.

"Pray?"

I look down at my little boy and wish a thousand wishes in this moment that he would always cling to the Truth of Jesus. I pray that he would forever share his faith so willingly, so boldly, so freely.....even if it's scary or hard or not the popular thing to do. I finally gave into my little boy's request and we quietly bowed our heads at the end of the aisle out of the way and prayed to our Heavenly Father.

"Amen"

A tear spills over, too, because I'm a bit of a crier when it comes to my little boy and Jesus.

Lord, make me bold like my toddler.

Making Merry

2011-11-30T21:38:00.005-06:00

We've been busy decking the halls, donning our gay apparel, and flat-out making merry. And let's not forget the Christmas carols resonating throughout our home. I love the Christmas season!

Last night, I rocked Titus while singing "Silent Night." I could barely get through it for the tears and the emotion. There is something so tremendously and beautifully gripping to a mother holding her baby and imagining what it must have been like for Mary holding baby Jesus. Not only did she have the joy of adoring her precious son, she was adoring the Messiah. "Jesus, Lord at Thy birth...." Amen!

Our Christmas books are all placed in the basket waiting to be read and enjoyed again and again throughout the season. I can't wait to share some of these beloved stories with Titus.

Christmas Joy

2011-11-27T13:03:00.019-06:00

I love this snapshot of Titus!

Capturing him laughing and smiling is rare; he is such a serious little boy.

Thanksgiving Rewind

2011-11-26T14:19:00.000-06:00

Thanksgiving Snapshots

2011-11-25T19:03:00.002-06:00

We have so much to be thankful for:

Family to celebrate with

God's creation

Where's Elijah?

Brotherly competition and games

Fun memories

Relationships that bloom and grow over the years

Quality time with Daddies who are off work for a few days

Delicious food and all the blessings God has given us to share

"Gratitude should be an every-moment,

every-hour, every-day, lifetime event.

Will we ever run out of things to be thankful for?

Not a chance..."

~Nancy Leigh DeMoss

The Bench

2011-11-19T14:23:00.007-06:00

There is a bench in a park that overlooks the water.

To most people that sit on it or pass by it,
it's probably just a regular old bench.

But, to me it's something so much more.

It's a place where I used to go to sometimes after a long day.

Longing just to hold a baby that was my very own.

It's a place where I would sit and quietly cry as my heart ached.

It's a place where I asked my God to bless Kevin and me with a baby.

As I would sit on this ordinary park bench and stare out at the water,
I would be filled with peace.

A calmness that only He could give.

I would leave this place with a renewed hope
in the One who loved me and had a perfect plan.

God had a plan; a perfect plan.

But, it wasn't His perfect time to reveal those plans.

He chose to keep those special plans to Himself
while he prepared us for them.

Today, as I cuddled and talked to my toddler,

in the coolness of the autumn day,

the one whom I had prayed for hundreds of times on that bench,

the emotions of the past came flooding back.

As Titus' dark black eyes stared into mine,
I told him why this place was special.

It's a place that proves God's love and answer to prayers.

It's a sweet, sweet view indeed!

Sneaking in a snooze

2011-11-17T21:10:00.000-06:00

Over the years, I've heard of and seen a handful of children fall asleep at the table. However, I never dreamed that Titus would do so. He is truly a foodie at heart and loves and lives for meal times. Saturday afternoon Titus refused to take a nap, and decided to play in his crib until nap time was over. Since we usually attend church on Saturday night I was a little concerned how the night would play out. But, our little guy decided to sneak in a snooze at the table while he was chewing his food. Titus' snooze created quite the entertainment for our dinner.

And he's...out!

Sick Days

2011-11-16T21:02:00.002-06:00

For three weeks straight, it seemed that Titus and I had something scheduled almost everyday. Yuck! I'm a SAHM and truth be told, I like being at home and should be at home taking care of my little family. A few days into our rat race, I felt myself praying for peace, quiet, and rest.

Well, God answered my prayers with a sick little boy and a sick mama to boot. Not exactly the way I would have liked to have been forced to stay-at-home, but sometimes He must take measures into His hands. I knew my week's plans would quickly be changing when my active, never stops moving, little boy just wanted to cuddle, not move, and definitely not be put down.

Finally, I too just gave myself the permission to sit on the couch with my sick little boy and not feel guilty for napping when he does. It happens. Mamas need naps too!

Sometimes in life we have to give ourselves time. Time to figure out what it is that God's working on inside of us, what our hearts are feeling and our minds are thinking. Sometimes we just need a break.

So that's where I've been and what I've been doing.

Christmas Shoeboxes

2011-11-12T16:23:00.005-06:00

In past years, Kevin and I have enjoyed filling a shoebox with goodies for a child somewhere in the world. This year we were excited to share and enjoy this Christmas tradition with Titus. One of our many prayers is that he will have a big heart for people.

So, we picked up our boxes, and strolled down the aisles of a store carefully choosing items for a little boy and a little girl a bit older than Titus, who live somewhere across the globe.

Titus would examine each toy or object and then say, "Friend!".

"Yes, a gift for your new friend." we would reply each time. And I smiled because I realized a giving heart can grow so early...even before little ones can truly grasp the concept.

After we finished our shopping we hurried home and spread the goodies in front of us.

We wrote a little note in a card with snowflakes on the front and included our photo too.
As we packed the goodies for Titus' new friends in those little shoeboxes, I dreamed about the simple joy each item would hopefully bring to a little girl and boy. I also reflected on the short and simple verse in Acts 20 that says, "It's more blessed to give than to receive."

Oh so true!

And I pray that my heart, and my husband's heart and our small son's heart will always carry that.

With the shoebox lid closed tightly, we prayed for our two little friends, one boy and one girl, across the globe.

Let's Go Bouncing

2011-11-11T15:19:00.001-06:00

It's amazing how 90 min of bouncing, climbing, sliding, jumping, and running can wear out 3 small children and 3 adults. Thanks Aunt Kate, Elle, and Zane for inviting us to come bounce and play with you, we had a great time!

I Spy With My Little Eyes

2011-11-10T14:08:00.005-06:00

Titus has been rubbing his forehead just above his eyes for quite awhile now. So, the next logical step was to schedule an eye exam. All the way, to the eye doctor's office we talked about how Dr. Z was going to look at Titus' eyes and how he would need to cooperate and follow directions. We arrived at the office, filled out paperwork, and were quickly taken to an exam room.

Titus was a pro! He quickly sat up in the exam chair like a big boy and let the doctor play games with him and exam his eyes. He was exuberant to tell and show Dr. Z where his eyes, nose, mouth, ears, hair, knees, elbows, and toes were. I guess he thought they all needed to be checked out. He even cooperated without complaint when it came to administering dilating drops and having pictures of his eyes taken.

All in all, we were given a great report. Titus has a slight astigmatism, which is a normal development in babies and he is within the normal range. We are going to schedule another appointment in about 6 months when Titus is able to recognize more colors, shapes and objects to receive a comprehensive exam.

While we aren't still aren't sure what is causing the headaches and will look into other options, this Mama, is thrilled that her tiny tot will not sporting glasses for a while (or maybe never) longer!

Bedtime

2011-11-09T22:00:00.004-06:00

There's something about his bedtime. I love this time; a time when we all know the day is done.

It's {more often than not} the same every time.

I change his diaper, lotion him down, put him in his snuggly pajamas, and administer his vitamins.

Then pass him off to Daddy who is waiting in the rocking chair for this special end of the day time with his son. It's a precious and quiet time; a time that we read the Bible together.

As soon as Bible time is done he quickly folds his little hands and bows his head. He knows we are talking to Jesus.

Immediately after prayer, Titus leaps from Daddy's lap into my waiting arms on the floor. We kiss and hug and I tell him that I love him all the way to Taiwan and back-and that's a long, long way. His eyes meet mine and in this still, hushed moment I feel like my heart might burst. Because I know he feels loved. And he loves back so fiercely.

I then place my sleepy boy into the waiting arms of his daddy. I turn off his lamp and whisper one more good night and I love you.

Oftentimes, just before I close the door, I glance back and watch a boy and his daddy-cuddling and rocking. I never want to forget these nights!

Living in the moment

2011-11-02T11:25:00.003-05:00

A couple of nights ago at church I found out that a friend is joining the ranks of those who bravely and proudly bear the title SAHM (stay at home mom). I'm thrilled for her. I know she and her husband have made many sacrifices for her to make this transition home to raise their precious daughter and baby on the way. I loved watching her face beam with delight and hearing the anticipation and excitement in her voice, no doubt dreaming of all the exciting adventures of mommy and me time ahead.

This morning as I began my morning trek, I kept thinking back to the conversation I had with my friend; what a sweet reminder of dreams coming true and blessings abounding. As I walked I began praying and evaluating my role as a SAHM. By nature, I am a task oriented person. I love to-do lists. I thrive being able to check something off. I began to wonder...do my lists override me sometimes living and being in the moment with my toddler? As Titus and I neared the park, I couldn't help but take in the beauty of autumn: the colors, the crisp cool air, and the peaceful anticipation of a day just beginning. As the wind blew and leaves tumbled to the ground, I found myself looking up and admiring the beautiful canopy of trees over the path. I even stopped a few times to take in the sweet beauty of the sun shinning through the leaves. Gorgeous! Had it not been for the colors of the season, the light shinning through the leaves, and the sweet reminder of a friend's dream come true, I probably would have just kept walking to cross another task off my to-do list. But, not today!

Far too often my days become ordinary. I lose the excitement, anticipation, blessing and vision Kevin and I share of me staying at home with our child(ren). However, in that moment, I quickly pulled the stroller off the path and decided to take in the moment and put aside my to do list. The list of daily tasks waiting to be checked off could wait. This moment with my toddler could not.

Ahhhh....leaf love! We ran. We threw. We piled high. We jumped. We watched leaves dance and twirl to the ground. We experienced pure joy.

Thank you, Father for the precious reminder of true blessings,

of living in the moments,

and looking beyond the ordinary!

Unsent Letter

2011-11-01T09:30:00.007-05:00

Dear Mr. Garbage Truck Driver,

I am writing to say thank you for the 10 minutes you buy me every Tuesday between 8:15 and 9:00 am. If you look closely, you'll see an adorable little boy- not quite two and half feet tall, fascinated by the mechanical arm on your garbage truck.

He listens intently for you.

He watches in wonder as you pull up in front of our home with your engine revving and pistons pumping. He stares in awe as you and your truck lift all four trash dumpsters into your big truck.

And this, Mr. Garbage Man, is why I like you so.

For 10ish minutes every Tuesday,
my busy bee,

my tornado of activity,

my dumper of all things dumpable...

He stays in one place.

Suddenly, the dishwasher gets unloaded without toy cars flying and blocks banging. The bed gets made and the breakfast mess gets cleaned up. Before you know it, this mama has her morning chores done and can sit on the floor next to her little man soaking up the moment...you know, the moment where the biggest thing in his world is how cool your truck is. It's the moment where this mama remembers "people over projects" and thinks about how next week when you come, maybe little mister man and I will just stand and watch your truck together!

Until next week-same time, same place,

Your biggest fan's happy mama

Staycations are for:

2011-10-16T11:43:00.003-05:00

Discovering tunnels at the park

Enjoying the outdoors and the colors of the season

Playing in the autumn leaves

Learning and mastering the game of golf

Becoming a skilled fisherman

But most of all spending lots of quality time together

and creating lasting memories.

Daddy's Shoes

2011-10-10T00:58:00.008-05:00

I love to wear my daddy's shoes though my feet are small
When they're in my daddy's shoes, I feel so very tall
Someday I'll grow to fill them, I only hope to be
As fine a man and great a dad, as my daddy is to me.

Author unknown

Welcome Fall!

2011-09-25T22:31:00.016-05:00

We were so excited that Auntie C and Cousins H&B were here to celebrate the first weekend of autumn. We love when they come to visit us and always plan special things to do.

Roasting hot dogs, marshmallows and sipping apple cider...the perfect way to begin the autumn season!

Our day for pumpkins began with some delicious pumpkin waffles and then we were off to the pumpkin patch for some autumn fun.


Three kiddos excited for some pumpkin fun

We were excited that the farm we visited didn't just have a pumpkin patch, but a large open area filled with fun activities for all ages. The kids were thrilled too! They had a small feeding and petting zoo with goats, chickens, pigs, and rabbits. There were also rubber ducky races, a large playground, a wooden fort, a ginormous slide, tricycle track, a corn maze and the list could go on and on.

"Pumpkins in the cornfields

Gold among the brown,

Leaves of rust and scarlet

Trembling slowly down.

Birds that travel southward

Lovely time to play,

Nothing is as pleasant

As an autumn day!"

~Author Unknown

Ahhh...life in the country!

Look Who's Five!

2011-09-17T14:03:00.002-05:00

Happy 5th Birthday, Cousin B!!! We enjoyed celebrating your special day with you.

August Mini Get-Away

2011-09-12T00:07:00.001-05:00

Since Daddy had a busy work week, Titus and I decided to join Papa, Grammy, and Cousins Hadley and Braxton for a mini get-away in Branson. Our original plan had been to take the kids to Silver Dollar City for some fun. Unfortunately, they were closed for the week so we had to come up with other alternatives to keep three kiddos entertained.

One of our alternatives consisted of a visit to College of the Ozarks. I love the idea of this college! It is a non-denominational Christian college where students work their way through college with zero tuition costs and when they finish zero debt. The students work hard and earn their degrees. What a concept in today's society! ;) On their campus they have many things to see and do.

Our first stop was to the Ralph Foster Museum. It contains the original clunker car from the show The Beverly Hillbillies, a huge weapons display, Native American artifacts, many taxidermy wild animals, a collection of Kewpie dolls, musical instruments, and historical pieces from around the Ozarks.

They also have a beautiful chapel on their campus. I love looking at old churches, what a spiritual history they hold within their walls.

The next stop was Point Look Out. The highest point in Taney County. What an incredible view!

Branson in the distance

College of the Ozarks also is home to a mill, a basket weaving shop, a jam and jelly kitchen, a dairy farm, and a tractor museum.

A grave reminder of Matt 18: 5-6: "And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me. But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea."

A Walk in the Park

2011-09-09T14:08:00.016-05:00

After months (literally) of daily high temperatures being in the 100 degrees, this week was a very nice reprieve. It has been in the low 60's each morning this week and the afternoons have been in the 70's and 80's. Ahhhh, autumn...we are so ready to welcome you!

The heat has kept us from taking walks and playing in the park, and we have been missing it a lot.

18 month pictures

2011-09-09T10:37:00.000-05:00

Extraordinary Days

2011-08-21T09:59:00.026-05:00

Year after year August was a fairly insignificant month on our calendar. The thirty-one days of August would float by without too much significance in our little family's life, minus a couple of special family birthdays scattered about. However, now and forever more, one ordinary day in August is now engraved into our memory and etched in our hearts forever.

August 21st, 2010 is one of those ordinary turned extraordinary days...and I can pinpoint 6:57am as the moment that change our little world. The moment I finally held my son. In the blink of an eye, there he was in the flesh and I was a mother. His mother forever and ever. My heart was filled with more love and joy than it had ever known before.

For four months I had stared at and memorized the thirty-two photos we had, read and re-read the monthly emails about our precious boy, day-dreamed about our little one's personality, and wondered what he was doing at any given moment on the other side of the world.

Today marks one year ago when we finally held our precious boy. Those incredible days have come and gone like a blink of an eye...but not one passes without a prayer of thanks to our Father from a happy mama's heart.
Our sweet Titus Andrew, thank you for making every ordinary day extraordinary. Your daddy and I are so proud of you, and we are so very much in love with you.

Thank you Father for this child~and giving us more than we knew to ask for.

Now all glory to God , who is able through His mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. Ephesians 3:20

Taiwan Trip Rewind

2011-08-19T00:37:00.280-05:00

Taiwan Trip Days 1, 2 & 3 (August 19-21, 2010)

Exactly one year ago today, Kevin and I were on our way to finally meet our Titus Andrew. Taking in everything that his birth country is. Loving every second. I never thought it would take me this long to blog our trip. There are several factors as to why. One, we had very limited internet access as well as time while in Taiwan. Two, I was emotionally and physically overwrought and the very idea of processing and trying to put all we were experiencing into words was just too much. We were just living and taking in the moments as they presented themselves. I honestly remember the details vividly that it's like it was yesterday...and I'm thankful for the time I've spent reliving and praising God for that special week.

Of course, Titus is the most important reason behind writing these Taiwan Rewind posts. He won't remember his six months of life and time in Taiwan and so it is my privilege and responsibility to share with him what his daddy and I experienced and saw while we were there. Because of him, I never want to forget a single detail. It's his precious story and the journey of a lifetime for our little family.

On August 17th at 2:34 am we received a phone call from Ted Skiles that he would like us to be in Taiwan in two days or in two weeks. We chose the two days; nothing was going to post-pone me from waiting to hold my little boy another two weeks. After all my prayer through this entire adoption journey was that I would be able to hold my son, on or before his 6th month birthday.

The funny part of this story is my niece and nephew were staying with us for the week because my sister and brother-in-law had to go back to school as they both work for their town's school district. When my sister asked if we would be willing I said sure it will be great parenting practice for us. She then hesitantly asked, "You don't think you'll get a travel call, do you?" My reply was that at best it would be weeks away. And God laughed.

On Friday, August 19th Uncle Eric and Aunt Kate came to pick us up and take us to the airport at 6:30 am. When we pulled away from our home, it was surreal to know that we were leaving as two and coming back as a family of three. Oh, what a glorious day!

We arrived at the airport with plenty of time to check in, pray together, promised to post lots of pictures, gave hugs, talked about the journey that awaited us, and said our good byes.

Kevin and I then sat and waited by ourselves in great anticipation for the journey that awaited us. Our emotions were high. We had no idea what awaited us on the other side of the world, but it didn't matter, we were ready. We had several flights before we would actually be on our way to Taiwan. Honestly, we would spend most of the day traveling or sitting in airports. And somehow due to the International Dateline we would lose an entire day. Our trip consisted of traveling from KC to Dallas, Dallas to LA, and finally LA to Taipei.

Just after 8:30pm we were finally leaving LA and on our way to Taipei. The 14 hour flight was long, but went well. EVA Air did an excellent job of taking care of our every need. We ate some yummy Chinese food, Kevin watched 3 or 4 movies, and I tried to relax.

Every 20 minutes or so I would click my individual flight monitor to see how many miles we had traveled, how many more miles of the 6823 miles we still had to travel, and to watch the progression of our plane over the wide Pacific Ocean. It helped relieve some of the anxiety in my mama's heart to know how much longer it would be until I was FINALLY in my child's birth country.

I'll never forget the rush of emotions that I had as our plane descended and I got my first peek of Taiwan at 10pm on August 20th (Taiwan time). It was hard to see much, but this was it. We meandered our way through customs, thermo scanning, finding our luggage and even stopping to snap a picture or two.

Finally in the crowd we spotted Ted's smiling face. What a welcome sight! We then began our two hour car trip to The Home. It was midnight when we arrived and we were given what we considered our preview of our precious boy. It was sooo hard not to reach out and touch and hold him.

With much restraint we headed to bed. I attempted to sleep, but knowing that my son was close by, I couldn't. Finally, I woke Kevin up at 6:15 am and told him it was time to finally go hold our son. We stayed in the apartment that was about a mile from The Home but that morning that one mile walk seemed to to be ten miles. Finally we arrived at The Home to find out that Titus was still asleep. Thankfully though, Bev allowed us to wake him up. Maybe, my restraint and good behavior the night before helped my case. :) I felt bad waking Titus up from his peaceful slumber, but my aching arms couldn't take it much longer. We tiptoed into the nursery and I slowly lifted him from his bed. He studied us and stared intently at Kevin and me but his overall demeanor was peaceful. We jumped right in caring for his needs: diaper changing, feeding him breakfast, burping, and rocking him.

Our hearts were overflowing with love and joy. We were finally complete. We had waited so long for this day to come and it had been worth every single struggle. Titus has always been meant to be our child and we are blessed to be his parents. Our Father's hand brought us together...only He could of made this happen. To HIM be the glory!!!!

In the Good Old Summertime

2011-08-07T23:00:00.003-05:00

What do you do when you live in the Midwest and it's 100+ degrees?

We beat the heat by doing lots of this.

And this.

17 months

2011-07-25T21:05:00.005-05:00

July was a huge month for Titus!
He is growing, developing and changing so fast.

Our baby is now in full toddler mode.

Titus now weighs 18 pounds and is 31 inches tall.

He wears size 4 shoes.

He wears 9 month clothes (with a few 12 months here and there)
and size 3 diapers.

Titus doubled his teeth, with 8 new ones in one month. Yes, EIGHT!

He was a trooper and we really didn't know he was teething. :)
However, when I was brushing his teeth last night I noticed he has 2 more coming in.

Titus climbs EVERYTHING and is BUSY all the time.

It seems like the only time he sits still is when he is being read to.

He LOVES reading books and sometimes will sit for 15-20 minutes.
His favorite books right now are:
Pat the Bunny
The Wheels on the Bus

15 Animals
Old McDonald Had a Farm
God Knows Your Name
Noah

Titus is now using more and more words. It seems everyday he says a new one.

In general he talks all the time!

Words that we understand: ball, hi, bye-bye, wow, Titus, dog, kitty, eat, mine, Baba (for grandma), Papa, Dada, Mama, banana, Boz, bear, Bible, and EIEIO

Phrases: Oh wow!, Bye Dada, night-night!
Titus can point to his eyes, nose, mouth, hair and ears when asked.

Firsts: pushes himself on his corn popper car, gets up and down from a chair, he is starting to sing, hums, uses his fork and spoon (he still prefers his fingers though)

Loves: his bear, food in general, Boz

Titus stories:

Every night we tell Titus it is time for bed. Fairly consistently, when we tell him that he goes to the stairs, says night-night and climbs up the stairs. I hope getting him to go to bed is always this easy! :)

Right now one of Titus' favorite song and book is "The Wheels on the Bus." We were at a store looking at shower heads when Titus started making the sign for round from "The Wheels on the Bus". He did it several more times before we realized that he was putting together that the shower heads were round. Once we acknowledged this to him that yes the shower heads were round he stopped. As we were walking down the store aisles he started saying and making the sign for ball and the sign for round. He looked so happy and proud when we replied to him, "Yes, balls are round!"

We love watching Titus make connections with bits of knowledge.
Toddlerhood is so much fun!

Fun with Friends

2011-07-09T13:18:00.000-05:00

The #1 reason we went to STL was to see old friends and meet new ones from The Home of God's Love. We had a wonderful time picnicking together, watching our children play together, reminiscing about Taiwan, and marveling at God's amazing design of creating our individual families.

Our attempt at a group photo. :)

The Arch

2011-07-08T18:29:00.018-05:00

What would a trip to St. Louis be without an adventure to The infamous Arch?

Since neither Titus nor Daddy have ever been up in The Arch, we decided to buy tickets and enjoy the adventure to its fullest. It was a HOT, crowed, July day and it seemed as though half the population of St. Louis must have had the same idea for an adventure too. The two lines to enter The Arch were both out the doors and meandered through the beautiful park. Finally, when Daddy purchased our tickets, we were told there was a 2 hour wait. Oh no! What to do with a one year old boy, for two hours? We decided to buy tickets for a riverboat ride on a paddle wheel steamboat down the Mississippi River. Might as well make good use of two hours, learn some history of St. Louis, and go for a long, hot ride.

The Flooded Mighty Mississippi

Finally it was Arch Time!!!!! Titus fell asleep in my arms as we were waiting in yet again another line to begin our ascent up The Arch. I have to admit I was a bit disappointed, but realized that he wouldn't remember this experience anyway. However, right before we entered the claustrophobia inducing egg with three strangers for a LOOOOONG three minute ride to the top of The Arch, he woke up. Yay!!!!

Titus loved The Arch. He crawled right up into the little windows and pointed, smiled and looked and looked. So happy he was able to enjoy the adventure.

The Old Courthouse where the famous Dred Scott case was tried.

Busch stadium. Wow, look at that humidity!

Illinois

All Creatures Great and Small

2011-07-07T23:03:00.001-05:00

All things bright and beautiful,

All creatures great and small,

All things wise and wonderful,

The Lord God made them all.

~Cecil Frances Alexander~

"St. Louis Zoo"

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While at the zoo Daddy was able to fulfill a childhood dream of his: to touch a stingray as well as a hammerhead shark. Mama had no interest whatsoever and was happy to watch from a distance, man the camera, and let Titus and Daddy share an experience.

Magic House Fun

2011-07-06T22:43:00.012-05:00

We absolutely loved the Magic House; it was hands down our favorite place that we visited while in STL. When planning our trip, we almost skipped this destination because we thought it might be too old for Titus. Boy, are we glad we didn't miss out on this fun! Titus had a blast and we spent four hours playing and having fun together as a family.

Titus has always been drawn to musical instruments and the Magic House didn't disappoint him. He could have played all day with each instrument; but there was so much to see, play, and do that we had to almost tear him away from each one.

Titus loved the alphabet peek-a-boo activity. And in true Titus fashion he went down the line in order opening each box. Even exhibiting patience as he waited on a little boy to open R, S, T, and U SEVERAL times. Love my little boy's order in all things!

Titus' eyes were wide as he watched Daddy blow HUGE bubbles. He loves bubbles but for some reason our bubbles are never quite that large at home.

This was Titus' first time to play in sand. At first he was a bit hesitant but after a few minutes of Mama helping and encouraging him he enjoyed himself.

After the sand play we had to visit the water area. Titus loves playing in our sinks at home, so we knew this would be a big hit for him. I love the slicker they give little ones to protect their clothes. We couldn't help but laugh, he looked like he was about to head out on a shrimp boat.

And what would a trip to the Magic House be without playing with the static electric ball generator. Daddy is blessed to have short hair and not have this embarrassment, errr fun, with his son. Oh, the things we do for our children! :)

We could have spent a few more hours playing; there was so much to see and do! Maybe in a few years we will have to come back to play again.

A Star Spangled Day

2011-07-04T23:45:00.009-05:00

We had a wonderful time celebrating our country's birthday with family. We enjoy holidays, and the Fourth is right up there at the top of the list. It was so much fun watching Titus experience so many new things: corn on the cob, fireworks, a bicycle ride with Papa, and of course, Fourth of July in general. We are blessed beyond measure and so grateful to live in the "land of the free and the home of the brave".

Thank you to all those that secure and protect our freedoms everyday!

Dragon Boat Festival

2011-06-29T22:22:00.003-05:00

Another adventure we shared with Papa Rex and Baba was to attend the annual Dragon Boat Festival. We met Uncle Eric, Aunt Kate, and Cousins Elle and Zane to share in the fun. I love the fact that Titus shares a rich heritage with several of his cousins. We enjoyed watching the traditional dragon and lion dance, several native Chinese dances and of course a couple of Dragon Boat races. To complete our adventure we enjoyed a delicious Chinese cuisine. What a fun filled day!

At the K

2011-06-28T20:46:00.002-05:00

Daddy and Papa Rex took Titus to his very first baseball game to see the Royals play.


Love my men in blue!

Guest Relations printed and gave Titus a certificate to

commemorate his first game.

Family Time

2011-06-27T17:24:00.007-05:00

It's summer time and that means Papa Rex and Baba (Babushka-Russian for Grandma) are here for the summer from Russia. For weeks we've been talking to and prepping Titus about their visit and how they were coming to stay with us. When we first picked them up at the airport Titus was a bit shy; a new development for him. But, the shyness only lasted a short time. Soon he realized that having Papa Rex and Baba here meant extra tickles, extra hugs, extra cuddles, gifts, more stories read, more playtime, and of course more attention. Titus sees his Papa Rex and Baba online almost weekly through Skype, but hasn't seen them in person since he was 6 months old and first came home from Taiwan.

Needless to say, I think this week we will be going through Papa Rex and Baba withdraws. As soon as they left and the door was closed he ran to the door and started banging on it and crying "Baba! Baba!". When Dada came home Titus really didn't care that his dada was home (very odd). He just carried his books to the front door and kept saying, "Baba. Baba.". Baba read LOTS of books to Titus during her visit.

While Papa Rex and Baba were here the Wolfes all had one evening where everyone's calendars were open, so we seized the opportunity and had a fun evening together picnicking, playing games, and swimming. Thanks Uncle Eric and Aunt Kate for hosting; we had a wonderful time!

By nature the Wolfe brothers are VERY competitive and enjoy playing games together, so while the little ones swam the uncles played Ladder Ball with their nephews.


Will he make it?

Also by nature, the Wolfe brother's games always have a way of morphing into something more competitive and daring. Notice the ladders have been cast aside and now they are throwing the balls high into the air and catching them. Ahhh...boys will be boys...errr men will be men. :) I always love watching the creativity and crazy competition come alive!

And of course, it wouldn't be a Wolfe get together without some family photos! What's truly amazing is we captured all 16 people looking at the camera on the first and second try. :)

Father's Day

2011-06-19T23:25:00.007-05:00

Today was my first Father's Day holding Titus.

Titus' present was to let us sleep in until 10:30! Daddy and Mommy have gotten out of the habit off setting an alarm since Titus has arrived. Whoops! We'd all had a long weekend so far and I guess we all needed the sleep.

We got ready for the day and ate at 5 Guy's burgers, then went to Crown Center for the rain forest display and the Chalk Walk festival.

The rain forest exhibit was a little too old for Titus, but he had fun walking around and looking at everything. He really loved walking through the tunnels.

There were dozens of artists participating in this years Chalk Walk. One artist said they had all started on Saturday, but it rained last night and washed most of the chalk away. Most of the artists came back and started from scratch this morning. We really appreciated all their creativity and ability!

To cool off, Titus and I played in the fountains. Titus received a few face fulls of water when he was watching for the water. But, we had a lot of fun playing and cooling off!

Noah

2011-06-17T22:00:00.000-05:00

As a belated birthday present for Kevin, Mom and Dad treated us to Noah the Musical. I was a little anxious about how Titus would behave for a three hour show, but to our delight he was well behaved. The best part was when the live animals started walking onto the stage and Titus started waving and talking to them (thankfully quietly). We sat in awe as the entire theater became the inside of the ark with hundreds of animals. It was honestly hard to depict some of the live animals from the animatronic ones. Unfortunately, they would not allow pictures or videos, however I found a great Youtube video that shows some great footage.

Pre-Show in the Atrium

Finger Food

2011-06-10T16:22:00.002-05:00

Titus is VERY serious about his food. We have attempted repeatedly to teach Titus to enjoy his food rather than shovel it in. To much avail, he refuses; food is serious business! However, today was a rare day of discovery and enjoyment with food and once he made the great pasta discovery the rest of his bowl of pasta was eaten one finger full at a time.

I love that he holds both pointer fingers up-silly boy!

Joplin

2011-06-01T03:02:00.006-05:00

Kevin grew up in the Joplin area. We both graduated from college in Joplin. Together we made our first home in Joplin. We have family in Joplin or in the area as well as many friends. Despite where we live, we will always be a part of the Joplin.


Our first home (it had been a duplex)

As the images of destruction rolled in Sunday night and Monday morning our hearts broke for the people of Joplin. We were glued to the news, waiting, listening and praying. We talked, we prayed, we cried. Then we decided to go and serve and be a blessing. I think in the end we were the ones who were blessed.

We went to our old church, College Heights Christian to serve. We were absolutely blown away at how well they implemented their disaster relief program in such a short time. Every day since the destruction CHCC has had 1500-2000 volunteers coming through their doors to help serve. It is such a blessing to see the community of Christ surround the people of Joplin. There were families, youth groups, churches and just individuals coming to serve from all around the nation. On top of the volunteers there are also 1500+ people a day affected by the tornado coming through the doors for help and support.

Kevin and I didn't care where they plugged us in the help. We just wanted to help. One morning we canvased a neighborhood with cases of water. We went door to door making sure people had drinking water, due to the boil order. We met many people and heard many stories. The rest of the time we were the information desk at CHCC. We evaluated needs, directed people, gave information, and most importantly listened to their stories. The days were long and overwhelming emotionally, but we left praying that we made a tiny dent in such a great need.

Sunday morning we attended early service at CHCC. We knew it could potentially be an emotional service, since this was the first worship service since the tornado. However, I think we were both unprepared for our own emotions. After seeing the destruction up-close and in person (pictures do not do it justice), and listening to the stories of people, the words of familiar songs have taken on a new meaning. "Blessed be Your Name" "In Christ Alone", "It is Well with My Soul", "You're the God of this City". I don't think there was a dry eye in the service.

Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ. Philippians 3:8

Praying for Joplin

Programmer in training

2011-05-14T21:51:00.000-05:00

Kevin has many extra computer parts and due to spring cleaning he has been eliminating and donating lots of extras. One of the items in the donate/trash pile was an extra keyboard. Titus has always been drawn to our electronic items and today he dug the keyboard from the pile. He has spent the entire afternoon dragging the keyboard around and typing. It’s been a great opportunity for me to talk about letters and numbers. We have spelled Titus name to him since he came home and he easily recognizes us saying the letters of his name. But, this keyboard has brought on a whole new level of letter recognition. Daddy is seizing the opportunity and secretly hoping for a mini-me programmer some day and he might just get his wish.

A taste of summer

2011-05-14T16:35:00.000-05:00

Weather in the Midwest can be interesting. This week it was 90 degrees, hot and balmy and we felt like summer had arrived. There are a few things that scream summer to me: bare baby feet, eating outside, and cooking over an open fire. Ahhh... Summer!

Mother's Day

2011-05-08T12:04:00.003-05:00

Dearest Titus,

Thank you for your precious little life.

Thank you for waking up every morning with the happiest, infectious little grin on your face. Seeing you every morning is the perfect way to start the day and any time I walk into the room you let me know that you’re happy I’m there. What a great feeling!

Thank you for your sweet, sensitive spirit. Your little heart breaks when we tell you “no,” but you are so easily soothed when you get a hug from your daddy and me.

Thank you for introducing me to the true feelings of sacrificial love. I’d do anything for you and your health and happiness.

Thank you for that precious giggle that makes us giggle, too. It’s such a sweet sound to hear your happiness and it warms my heart to watch you observe and appreciate the things around you.

Thank you for your curiosity- it has helped me to learn more about the world and God’s beautiful creation. Seeing things through your eyes has been an eye-opening experience and I love every day because you’re in the world.

Thank you for being such a unique little boy and for being your innocent, beautiful self.

Thank you for saying, “mama.” It’s such a sweet sound to me.

Thank you for making me a mother, I'm so blessed!

Love,

Mama

Thank you, Kevin for creating a wonderful first Mother's Day.
We enjoyed some wonderful family time marveling God's beautiful creation
at the arboretum and botanical gardens.

The Lord has done great things for us and we are filled with joy Psalms 126:3